If you are a man in a spanking relationship, does your wife use any type of restraint to make sure that you don't interfere with the spanking she is going to give you? I have purchased a belt, that has cuffs on it, that holds my hands out of the way. It gives me the feeling of powerlessness that I want.
When my wife first began punishing me she often tied my hands to the bed post. Now I know to place hands where she tells me and no matter how harsh the punishment I know better than to cover my bottom while she is administering punishment.
ReplyDeletehank
Nope, I certainly know better than to interfere, trust me!!
ReplyDeleteJames
Yes both hands and feet tied to the bedposts...always!
ReplyDeleteI have a nylon windbreaker with a drawstring in the bottom hem. I zip it up and fold my arms in front. The hem is lifted over my shoulders and the drawstring is tightened and tied. My arms are trapped and I can't reach below my navel. I could possibly get out of this but would never be able to sit comfortably again.
ReplyDeleteIf a guy agrees to take a spaqnking/paddling then just take it as you agreed----If you need to be restrained----I do not think a punishment paddling is for you. While it happens only rarely--if I got a bare ass paddling coming--I just take the paddling--and it hurts but things are great betrween us he its over---thats what works for us----though to each his/her own!
ReplyDeleteI figure if you need a re straint--you do not have the trust level necessary for a spanking relationship. But thats just my opinion--do as you please---In the rare times my wife needs to paddle my bare ass--I just agree i got it coming--we both know it---and i put my naked self over her lap and take my paddling-which does hurt!---but I never have thought I did not have it coming and it settles things fast and we return to normal real quick----It is a total secret---but when necessary it works us---but my butt hurts!
ReplyDeleteMy wife is a firm believer in spanking me otk with her paddle. She simply pins my right arm behind my back & paddles my bare bottom non-stop. It hurts like hell but I always deserve it.
ReplyDeleteExcept on very rare occasions (and after we had both agreed) has J. (my wife) felt the need -or the urge- to use restraints before spanking or whipping me. I guess this is because she knows -from long experience- that she has me 'under her thumb', and that I am unlikely to raise any objection (let alone protest!) when she has decided that I need a stern dose of her paddle or of her martinet!'
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L. is indeed a very obedient husband who has had the benefit of several years of strict training. In fact, when he knows he has misbehaved, he often brings me my favorite paddle or the martinet, and pulls down his pants to offer his bare 'derrière' to whatever treatment I deem appropriate!
ReplyDeleteSuch submissive behavior, however, earns him no special clemency on my part -and he unfailingly gets exactly what he deserves (or maybe some more, as I choose!) --including a spell of bare-bottom 'corner time' after he has duly thanked me on his knees and kissed my hand (and whatever instrument I used to punish him).
J.
My wife gave me my first bare bottomed spanking on our wedding night, and was witnessed by our housekeeper as my wife invited her in to put the extra towels she asked for into the bathroom and walked within 4 feet of me getting spanked for an up close view of me bent over my new wife's knee. markiee
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