I find that I am the main roadblock to this happening. I still can get out of being spanked if I want to; I am still calling the shots. I think that it is the fear of the pain that is stopping me from wholeheartedly giving myself over to her. Wait, that is a lie..........I damn well know it is fear of the pain!!! If you are in this kind of relationship how did you overcome your fear? Or, is it just something you have to deal with on a spanking to spanking basis?
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