Written by a man who believes that all men should be treated like little boys and have their asses blistered frequently.
Hi,dave its david from davetouchingtoes In my book a real spanking begins a couple of mins before I`m reduced to tears,wishing it would stop will do no good as she will continue spanking me until she is satisfied I have learned my lesson.then I have to thank her and say if you feel I would benefit from a further punishment it would be richly deserved.She will think for awhile weighing it up and then either the cuddles begin or a Real Spanking begins.yours with rosyredcheeks david north england
I would totally agree with that statement. I've always wanted the spanking that I should not want. One that has me truly at what I think I can take. Squirming and wiggling like a naughty 10 year old. Still searching for that experience
Agree Strongly, the message hasn't really been properly delivered until you are squirming and wiggling wishing for it to end, promising to behave
Perhaps... but the real measure of a good spanking / whipping / strapping / caning is not whether he is "desperate for it to end", but whether I am satisfied that he has been chastised to MY satisfaction! This usually happens well after he starts sobbing and begging for mercy, but not invariably (over the years, the skin on his backside has been getting tougher, and I now have to trash him harder -and longer- to get the desired results. N.
i do not know if has to be deseprate for it---as you put it---but in our case when a rare bare ass paddling has to set things right---I know i got it coming and have no argument or 'beeging off' discussion---When its got to happen we both know it----Afterward things are fine between us --no harsh feelings or frustration or lingering anger-----We both know its going to set things right--she will be rid of her anger and frustration and i will have made things right---so it works fine for us----not for many I am sure!
Yes I agree , the true repentance is acheved when the naughty fellow has been reduced to tears and is well aware that he isnt in control and is begging and promising to be good .
I believe and so does my wife, that if it is a REAL spanking, then it doesn't stop until my bottom is multi-hued in colour, the tears are streaming down my face, I am all done yelling and begging and lying limp and exausted over her knee and she is satisfied that I have been well and truly spanked to her satisfaction.The most amazing thing that I have found out is the transformation in my wife. It took me a couple of years convincing her to spank me due to her being totally against it, then almost another year to try using the hairbrush, but now all my spankings consist of hand first and then the hairbrush. A lot of the spankings are sexual or fun spankings, but when it get's down to a REAL spanking she doesn't hold back anymore but gives it wholeheartedly, and on quite a few occassions I have known her to laugh at my discomfort as she wields the brush and when she's finnished my spanking there is a satisfied smirky grin on her face now.
absolutely agree and love your description in the first paragraph!
I'm going through the same progression with my wife. Getting her to spank me took some convincing, but the more we do (and we've only been doing this for the last three months) the more she seems to get into it. And there is nothing that is more exciting to me than to think that my wife is actually enjoying my punishment.
Agree totally! My wife is relentless with the hairbrush and strap. I'm spanked without mercy until she is satisfied that I've learned my lesson. Preliminary apologies are ignored. She will tell me that I'm not sorry but that I will be sorry very soon because she is going to make me sorry. She has total control and I am totally submissive to her. She can make me very sorry indeed! JayJay
Definitely. As the transition to wanting it to stop happens, there may still be a bit of resistance left, so the spanking needs to carry on for a good while longer.
I strongly agree as that is when the spanking starts to have an effect
I guess for me--who gets his bare ass paddled once in a great while--it starts when I am bare assed over her knee waiting for the first paddle strike--Its the only moment I am nervous----A paddling hurts but I know its going to be a certain length and I have it coming--- I am not paddled to a point of desperation----Sometimes its just gotta happen and we both know it will make things better quick--though my butt stays sore longer
I never thought of a spanking (paddling) in those words---but I guess its true--When i got paddled even in high school yrs--I sure was waiting for it to end---and usually thinking "this is going farther than I thought!" Even though mom or dad always paddled about the same amount---Thye used a skinny paddle that really hurt your bare butt----it was the same paddle whether 7 or 17
I guess the word desperate worries me---Since the amount of spanking may be up to the spanker----desperate is up to them and leaves room for abuse----If it is a guy getting a well deserved bare ass paddling from his wife--( as I once in a while deserve in spades!) I could just get up and stop it--though I never doA smaller person --female--even teen ager----might not be able to take it to the degree the spanker finds necessary-----a paddled butt should hurt as my butt does---but be craeful in the cases where the spanker is larger stronger----moderastion is the best
My wife spanks and/or whips me until I beg for mercy - and then continues until I am reduced to tears (and ready to thank her on my knees) - after which I usually have to serve some "corner time" (bare-bottomed, of course!)L.
For the second year in a row, J. (my wife) has decided to 'celebrate' the Twelve Days of Christmas by applying a different 'tool' each day (or night) to my unprotected derrière... She used the martinet on Christmas morning, and a hefty paddle tonight... I can imagine what she will use tomorrow - and on the following days - but, judging by last year's experience, I will have a very sore backside by January 6 ("el día de los Reyes")...L.